{"id":288863,"date":"2023-09-09T00:01:00","date_gmt":"2023-09-08T23:01:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/app.unio-preparation.com\/blog\/the-power-of-marital-discord-deciphering-the-90-10-rule\/"},"modified":"2024-05-29T16:28:00","modified_gmt":"2024-05-29T15:28:00","slug":"marital-discords","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/app.unio-preparation.com\/en\/marital-discords\/","title":{"rendered":"The power of marital discord: deciphering the 90\/10 rule"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"288863\" class=\"elementor elementor-288863 elementor-110592\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-4ab4c04d elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"4ab4c04d\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-2a2de361\" data-id=\"2a2de361\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-3c5ebf24 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"3c5ebf24\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-74c67bc4\" data-id=\"74c67bc4\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-29a7e929 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"29a7e929\" data-element_type=\"widget\" id=\"titre_article\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h1 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">The power of marital discord: discover the revolutionary 90\/10 rule<\/h1>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5692682b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"5692682b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>If you&#8217;ve been following us for a while (on <a class=\"lien_html\" href=\"http:\/\/www.instagram\/unio_preparation\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Instagram<\/a>, via our <a class=\"lien_html\" href=\"https:\/\/www.unio-preparation.com\/newsletter\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">newsletter<\/a> or on our <a class=\"lien_html\" href=\"https:\/\/www.app.unio-preparation.com\/en\/blog\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">blog<\/a>), you&#8217;re probably familiar with one of our core principles: <strong>couple fights can be incredibly beneficial<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f78f91b elementor-widget-mobile__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"f78f91b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>\ud83d\udca1 Talking about arguments, the difficulties you may experience as a couple and <strong><br \/>\n  <a class=\"lien_html\" href=\"https:\/\/www.app.unio-preparation.com\/en\/couple-life\/#tip-4\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">and how to prepare for them<\/a><br \/>\n<\/strong> are one of the topics covered in our ultimate guide to married life.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-88224d9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"88224d9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tYou may wonder why we make such a claim. Aren&#8217;t arguments within a couple supposed to indicate underlying problems?<br>\nIn this article, we&#8217;ll delve into the heart of this notion, explaining <strong>how disagreements in a romantic relationship can actually strengthen bonds<\/strong>.\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-aeb22f9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"aeb22f9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">\ud83d\ude35 First of all, what is a couple's argument?<\/span>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4732c5b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4732c5b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>It is the expression of divergent opinions and disagreements, often accompanied by an emotional charge: anger, sadness&#8230;<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-23080b0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"23080b0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tGet ready to <strong>\n  <span style=\"color:#f19879;\">discover the 90\/10 rule in detail<\/span>\n<\/strong>an intriguing perspective that could well revolutionize the way you think about marital disputes.\nA rule that should be in every happy couple&#8217;s toolbox!\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7ab86318 elementor-toc--minimized-on-tablet elementor-widget elementor-widget-table-of-contents\" data-id=\"7ab86318\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;headings_by_tags&quot;:[&quot;h2&quot;],&quot;exclude_headings_by_selector&quot;:[],&quot;marker_view&quot;:&quot;bullets&quot;,&quot;icon&quot;:{&quot;value&quot;:&quot;fas fa-chevron-circle-right&quot;,&quot;library&quot;:&quot;fa-solid&quot;},&quot;no_headings_message&quot;:&quot;No headings were found on this page.&quot;,&quot;minimize_box&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;minimized_on&quot;:&quot;tablet&quot;,&quot;hierarchical_view&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;min_height&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;min_height_laptop&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;min_height_tablet&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;min_height_mobile&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]}}\" data-widget_type=\"table-of-contents.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-toc__header\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-toc__header-title\">\n\t\t\t\tTable of contents\t\t\t<\/h2>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-toc__toggle-button elementor-toc__toggle-button--expand\" role=\"button\" tabindex=\"0\" aria-controls=\"elementor-toc__7ab86318\" aria-expanded=\"true\" aria-label=\"Open table of contents\"><i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-list-ul\"><\/i><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-toc__toggle-button elementor-toc__toggle-button--collapse\" role=\"button\" tabindex=\"0\" aria-controls=\"elementor-toc__7ab86318\" aria-expanded=\"true\" aria-label=\"Close table of contents\"><i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-chevron-up\"><\/i><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div id=\"elementor-toc__7ab86318\" class=\"elementor-toc__body\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-toc__spinner-container\">\n\t\t\t\t<i class=\"elementor-toc__spinner eicon-animation-spin eicon-loading\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i>\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-426ed52 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"426ed52\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">1 - <u>Is it normal<\/u> for a couple to argue a lot?<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4993ec7b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4993ec7b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Our answer is YES!<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b8ec80f elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"b8ec80f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>We are deeply convinced that <strong>arguments within a couple are not necessarily negative<\/strong>. In fact, they can testify to a balanced and healthy relationship.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a2ca137 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"a2ca137\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>How is this possible? Let us explain.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b2c17a6 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"b2c17a6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Disagreements reflect the maintenance of your individual identities.  <\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-79ba805 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"79ba805\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Each of you has <strong>your own values, opinions and experiences<\/strong>, which means you can&#8217;t agree on everything. These differences shouldn&#8217;t disappear as part of your life together: a successful couple is above all two individuals who retain their identity.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0048b7d elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"0048b7d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Conflicts and arguments between couples show your humanity.\n<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2b7fbe20 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2b7fbe20\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>As human beings, you&#8217;re imperfect: it&#8217;s normal that hurtful words can sometimes be exchanged, even with the best of intentions and despite all the love you have for each other.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4759430 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4759430\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Even the strongest couples go through crises, and making a relationship last doesn&#8217;t mean avoiding marital strife at all costs. These conflicts are by no means synonymous with the couple&#8217;s failure.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1bed44d elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"1bed44d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Conflict increases your intimacy.\n<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b70df55 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"b70df55\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul style=\"margin-bottom: 0px;\">In addition to being normal, these tense moments offer the opportunity for a better mutual understanding and a deepening of your intimacy, provided :\n \t<li>To have learned how to argue <i>&#8220;well&#8221;<\/i>, i.e. without violence, with respect&#8230; This is what we teach you to do in <strong><a class=\"lien_html\" href=\"http:\/\/www.app.unio-preparation.com\/en\/premarital-counseling-course\/#sessions-details\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">session 4 of the Unio premarital couseling course<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n \t<li>Knowing how to repair what has been damaged when a conflict has gone too far, by knowing how to <strong><a class=\"lien_html\" href=\"https:\/\/www.app.unio-preparation.com\/en\/blog\/handling-disputes-after-they-have-cooled-down\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">how to come back from the brink<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n \t<li>Understanding forgiveness and choosing to forgive<\/li>\n \t<li>Maintaining good communication within the couple, even at the most difficult times<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"margin-bottom: 0px;\">Agree to seek help (with couple therapy or marriage counselling, for example) if the dialogue has broken down<\/li>\n<\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2237350f elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2237350f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\u27a1\ufe0f Living as a couple, having a fulfilling relationship, isn&#8217;t just about enjoying moments of perfect harmony, it&#8217;s about confronting each other and growing together.\nBeing a couple is a wonderful opportunity to repair ourselves individually and as a couple.\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1138c6e elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"1138c6e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" src=\"https:\/\/app.unio-preparation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/dispute-de-couple-2-jpg.webp\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-288545\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/app.unio-preparation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/dispute-de-couple-2-jpg.webp 1024w, https:\/\/app.unio-preparation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/dispute-de-couple-2-300x200.webp 300w, https:\/\/app.unio-preparation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/dispute-de-couple-2-768x512.webp 768w, https:\/\/app.unio-preparation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/dispute-de-couple-2-50x33.webp 50w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6c9a687 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"6c9a687\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">2 - The <u>90\/10 rule<\/u>: an exploration of conflict and tension in relationships<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-317cb768 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"317cb768\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tOne perspective we&#8217;re very fond of at Unio for tackling relationship disputes is the 90\/10 rule, put forward by renowned author John Gray.<br> \nAnd it could well change your love life and your view of relationship conflicts.\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0649c71 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"0649c71\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>According to this rule, <strong><br \/>\n  <span style=\"color:#f19879;\">only 10% of our reactions in conflict situations are directly related to the current problematic situation<\/span><br \/>\n<\/strong>. The remaining 90% are actually echoes of our past, unresolved traumas or old pains.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ff151b9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"ff151b9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tThis means that the current disagreement (the subject of dispute at the moment) simply acts as a trigger, awakening painful memories from our history, whether buried in our childhood, past relationships or even more recent events.<br>\nThe psychology of couples is complex!\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-50dc8cb elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"50dc8cb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">3 - For a better understanding: an <u>example of the 90\/10 rule<\/u> in a couple's relationship<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7e0d0016 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"7e0d0016\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Let&#8217;s take an example to illustrate this intriguing rule.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-93101ef elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"93101ef\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>\u274c Imagine Ludovic and Cl\u00e9ment in the middle of a discussion. As Ludovic shares a highlight of his day, <strong>Cl\u00e9ment interrupts to talk about dinner plans<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-893695d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"893695d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tAt first glance, this interruption may seem harmless, but it provokes a disproportionate reaction from Ludovic, who gets angry, loses his temper and furiously leaves the room.<br>\nWithout knowing this rule, Cl\u00e9ment might have thought that Ludovic was simply temperamental, or had had a bad day. It could be an ordinary couple&#8217;s quarrel.\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d476bd7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"d476bd7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tBut Cl\u00e9ment remembers hearing about the 90\/10 rule \ud83d\udd25.<br>\nSo he waits for Ludovic to calm down, and resumes the discussion to understand where his reaction comes from; in other words, what <strong>this situation has triggered in him<\/strong>.\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6f04bd4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6f04bd4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>As Ludovic delves deeper into his story, he realizes that his anger isn&#8217;t just about the interruption itself, but that it&#8217;s actually awakening a childhood trauma. In his family, children&#8217;s opinions were often downplayed, and they had little say, which left him with deep emotional wounds. <strong>Cl\u00e9ment&#8217;s interruption rekindles these old wounds<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d1fa6b9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"d1fa6b9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">At the end of this episode :<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-51bc7c6 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"51bc7c6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul style=\"margin-bottom: 0px; list-style-type: none;\">\n \t<li style=\"margin-left:0px;\">\u2705 Ludovic knows himself better<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"margin-left:0px;\">\u2705 Cl\u00e9ment knows Ludovic better<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"margin-left:0px;\">\u2705 Their level of privacy has increased<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"margin-left:0px;\">\u2705 In the future, Cl\u00e9ment will have to be careful not to hurt Ludovic&#8217;s feelings with this behavior.<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left:0px;\">\u2705 In the future, Ludovic will be more aware of how to respond in such a situation (having talked about it will probably make him feel safer):  <i>&#8220;I am no longer an 8-year-old child, I am an adult in a loving and secure relationship&#8221;.<\/i>), rather than reacting without conscience.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d6bf55a elementor-widget-divider--view-line elementor-widget elementor-widget-divider\" data-id=\"d6bf55a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"divider.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-divider\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-divider-separator\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4a3a7a5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4a3a7a5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Therein lies the real treasure: <strong>the mutual understanding this awareness can bring to the couple<\/strong>. This intimacy is essential to a lasting relationship.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5063dff elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"5063dff\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Ludovic can share his past with Cl\u00e9ment, reinforcing their intimacy by deepening their understanding of each other. Cl\u00e9ment, for his part, can offer his empathy and support to Ludovic in his emotional healing process.  <\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-fdf9898 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"fdf9898\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Together, they can <strong>develop strategies to better manage future disagreements<\/strong> and prevent conflicts from escalating out of control.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-12d40b1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"12d40b1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" src=\"https:\/\/app.unio-preparation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/dispute-de-couple-1-jpg.webp\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-288544\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/app.unio-preparation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/dispute-de-couple-1-jpg.webp 1024w, https:\/\/app.unio-preparation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/dispute-de-couple-1-300x200.webp 300w, https:\/\/app.unio-preparation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/dispute-de-couple-1-768x512.webp 768w, https:\/\/app.unio-preparation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/dispute-de-couple-1-50x33.webp 50w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0e1bf11 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"0e1bf11\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">4 - <u>Increasing intimacy<\/u> through couple quarrels<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2c44cd3 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2c44cd3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>In concrete terms, <strong>what should you do when, during an argument, you feel that you or your partner<\/strong> is <strong> <i>&#8220;out of line<\/i><\/strong> &#8221; with the situation?  <\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4db6f7b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4db6f7b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul style=\"margin-bottom: 0px;\">You can <strong>trade judgment for curiosity<\/strong>, by asking one of the following questions, for example:  \n \t<li>Can you tell me what you&#8217;re feeling right now?<\/li>\n \t<li>Is there something, some other story behind your reaction?<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"margin-bottom: 0px;\">Does this remind you of a past experience?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c4c8dd1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c4c8dd1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>This awareness can pave the way for deeper, more vulnerable discussions, creating an enriching relationship environment.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c71fa20 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c71fa20\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>That&#8217;s what true intimacy and complicity are all about, when you want to build a stable relationship: not staying on the surface of the couple&#8217;s difficulties, and thus increasing the love in the couple.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d1a2110 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"d1a2110\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>This rule can be applied to a wide range of couples&#8217; disputes. You&#8217;ll probably discover a lot of things beneath the surface&#8230;<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9394ad9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"9394ad9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul style=\"margin-bottom: 0px;\"><u>For example:<\/u>\n \t<li><strong>excessive jealousy<\/strong> may stem from a <strong>past betrayal or infidelity<\/strong><\/li>\n \t<li><strong>anxieties about financial matters<\/strong> could be linked to a previous period of insecurity.<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"margin-bottom: 0px;\">&#8230;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7cd5338 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"7cd5338\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tMany couples&#8217; problems go far beyond a simple matter of misplaced socks!\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-42ba8c3 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"42ba8c3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CsIeC1jqrqK\/?img_index=1\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"813\" height=\"596\" src=\"https:\/\/app.unio-preparation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/Capture-decran-2023-09-07-a-11.14.07.png\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-288543\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/app.unio-preparation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/Capture-decran-2023-09-07-a-11.14.07.png 813w, https:\/\/app.unio-preparation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/Capture-decran-2023-09-07-a-11.14.07-300x220.png 300w, https:\/\/app.unio-preparation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/Capture-decran-2023-09-07-a-11.14.07-768x563.png 768w, https:\/\/app.unio-preparation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/Capture-decran-2023-09-07-a-11.14.07-50x37.png 50w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 813px) 100vw, 813px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d1e7734 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"d1e7734\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">\ud83c\udf81 <u>Bonus:<\/u> a little exercise to apply the 90\/10 rule in your love relationship<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1df9ce4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1df9ce4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul style=\"margin-bottom: 0px; list-style-type: none;\"><u>We suggest you take a moment to think about :<\/u>\n \t<li style=\"margin-left: 0px;\">\ud83d\udc49\ud83c\udffc the last time you felt like you were <i>&#8220;going crazy&#8221;<\/i>.<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"margin-left: 0px;\">\ud83d\udc49\ud83c\udffc the last time your lover reacted strongly to an argument.<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px;\">\ud83d\udc49\ud83c\udffc a recurring conflict in your relationship that triggers a strong emotional charge in one or other of you.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-46a82c4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"46a82c4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Each of you can reflect on what you think may have happened in this situation, and then discuss the subject in depth and in complete vulnerability.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e7c4874 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e7c4874\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>We&#8217;re sure it&#8217;ll be a great discussion!<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-eb22571 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"eb22571\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Conclusion<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1aa96fe elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1aa96fe\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>At the end of the day, arguments between couples are not necessarily negative.  <\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-63b1aba elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"63b1aba\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>In fact, they can be valuable opportunities to <strong>better understand your partner, strengthen your emotional bonds and deal with past traumas<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1981751 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1981751\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>By adopting the perspective of the 90\/10 rule, you can decipher the roots of your reactions and transform disagreements into moments of growth and intimate sharing.  <\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c93b8f9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c93b8f9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tSo the next time tension mounts in your relationship, remember that <strong>behind every argument may lie a hidden treasure trove of emotions and memories to explore together<\/strong>.\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-18bdde1e elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"18bdde1e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\ud83d\udccc If you&#8217;d like to discover another illustration of this phenomenon, we invite you to listen to <strong>\n  <a class=\"lien_html\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=-N2Vbt6BNlQ\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">episode 59 of l&#8217;espace du couple: <i>&#8220;Ep. 59: beneath our conflicts, our psychatrices&#8221;<\/i>.<\/a>\n<\/strong>.<br>\nYou&#8217;ll see what a lily of the valley story can hide \ud83d\ude09\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5a407bcc elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"5a407bcc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" 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class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-cc9de9b elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"cc9de9b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Categories :<\/div>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ad7bdd7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-html\" data-id=\"ad7bdd7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"html.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<ul class=\"sidebar_article\" style=\"margin-bottom:0px;\">\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/app.unio-preparation.com\/en\/blog\/category\/life-together\/\">\u2764\ufe0f Couple life<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/app.unio-preparation.com\/en\/blog\/category\/premarital-counseling\/\">\ud83d\udc8d Premarital counseling<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a1516a0 elementor-widget-divider--view-line elementor-widget elementor-widget-divider\" data-id=\"a1516a0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"divider.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-divider\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-divider-separator\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-30102fc elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"30102fc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">\u27a1\ufe0f Who we are<\/div>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ee2c12c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"ee2c12c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tWe are <strong><span style=\"color: #f19879;\">Lysiane<\/span><\/strong> and <strong><span style=\"color: #f19879;\">Romain <\/span><\/strong>newlyweds and co-founders of Unio premarital counseling.\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c0814d2 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c0814d2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tA few years ago, we were exactly where you are now. We decided to get married and set about preparing for our big day with great excitement.\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-548e898 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"548e898\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tIt was great, but something was clearly missing. We wanted to <strong><span style=\"color: #f19879;\">to give real meaning to our commitment <\/span><\/strong>and prepare ourselves properly.\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-114aa12 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"114aa12\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tThat&#8217;s how Unio was born: the <strong><span style=\"color: #f19879;\">100% secular &amp; online premarital counseling program<\/span><\/strong>.\n<strong><a class=\"lien_html\" href=\"https:\/\/www.app.unio-preparation.com\/en\/about\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Read more &gt;&gt;<\/a><\/strong>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4019a43 elementor-widget-divider--view-line elementor-widget elementor-widget-divider\" data-id=\"4019a43\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"divider.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-divider\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-divider-separator\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e777218 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"e777218\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">\u27a1\ufe0f Preparing for marriage with Unio :<\/div>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1f450ef elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1f450ef\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tFor <strong><span style=\"color: #f19879;\">lay the foundations for a solid marriage<\/span><\/strong> without spending hours on it, and without going to church.\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-cb2e9ed elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"cb2e9ed\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<strong>Our premarital counseling program:<\/strong>\n<ul style=\"margin-bottom: 0px;\">\n \t<li style=\"list-style-type: none; margin-left: 0px;\">\u2705 100% secular<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"list-style-type: none; margin-left: 0px;\">\u2705 100% online<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"list-style-type: none; margin-left: 0px;\">\u2705 100% fun<\/li>\n<\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9a06fd1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"9a06fd1\" 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data-id=\"ad7bdd7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"html.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<ul class=\"sidebar_article\" style=\"margin-bottom:0px;\">\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/app.unio-preparation.com\/en\/blog\/category\/life-together\/\">\u2764\ufe0f Couple life<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/app.unio-preparation.com\/en\/blog\/category\/premarital-counseling\/\">\ud83d\udc8d Premarital counseling<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a1516a0 elementor-widget-divider--view-line elementor-widget elementor-widget-divider\" data-id=\"a1516a0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"divider.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-divider\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-divider-separator\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-30102fc elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"30102fc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">\u27a1\ufe0f Who we are<\/div>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ee2c12c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"ee2c12c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tWe are <strong><span style=\"color: #f19879;\">Lysiane<\/span><\/strong> and <strong><span style=\"color: #f19879;\">Romain <\/span><\/strong>newlyweds and co-founders of Unio premarital counseling.\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c0814d2 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c0814d2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tA few years ago, we were exactly where you are now. We decided to get married and set about preparing for our big day with great excitement.\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-548e898 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"548e898\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tIt was great, but something was clearly missing. We wanted to <strong><span style=\"color: #f19879;\">to give real meaning to our commitment <\/span><\/strong>and prepare ourselves properly.\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-114aa12 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"114aa12\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tThat&#8217;s how Unio was born: the <strong><span style=\"color: #f19879;\">100% secular &amp; online premarital counseling program<\/span><\/strong>.\n<strong><a class=\"lien_html\" href=\"https:\/\/www.app.unio-preparation.com\/en\/about\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Read more &gt;&gt;<\/a><\/strong>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4019a43 elementor-widget-divider--view-line elementor-widget elementor-widget-divider\" data-id=\"4019a43\" 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