{"id":288873,"date":"2023-09-23T00:01:00","date_gmt":"2023-09-22T23:01:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/app.unio-preparation.com\/blog\/10-relationship-enemies-to-banish-from-your-relationship\/"},"modified":"2024-05-30T11:03:56","modified_gmt":"2024-05-30T10:03:56","slug":"relationship-ennemies","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/app.unio-preparation.com\/en\/relationship-ennemies\/","title":{"rendered":"10 relationship enemies to banish from your relationship"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"288873\" class=\"elementor elementor-288873 elementor-118889\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-571c3dbe elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"571c3dbe\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container 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elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"3f8559bc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" id=\"titre_article\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h1 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Relationships: discover the 10 relationship enemies to avoid at all costs<\/h1>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-277d98c elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"277d98c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" src=\"https:\/\/app.unio-preparation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/Article-du-2309-Relation-amoureuse-decouvrez-les-10-ennemis-du-couple-a-eviter-a-tout-prix-1-1-jpg.webp\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-288556\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/app.unio-preparation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/Article-du-2309-Relation-amoureuse-decouvrez-les-10-ennemis-du-couple-a-eviter-a-tout-prix-1-1-jpg.webp 1024w, https:\/\/app.unio-preparation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/Article-du-2309-Relation-amoureuse-decouvrez-les-10-ennemis-du-couple-a-eviter-a-tout-prix-1-1-300x200.webp 300w, https:\/\/app.unio-preparation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/Article-du-2309-Relation-amoureuse-decouvrez-les-10-ennemis-du-couple-a-eviter-a-tout-prix-1-1-768x512.webp 768w, https:\/\/app.unio-preparation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/Article-du-2309-Relation-amoureuse-decouvrez-les-10-ennemis-du-couple-a-eviter-a-tout-prix-1-1-50x33.webp 50w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-716ba645 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"716ba645\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tA widely held belief about married life is that &#8220;love is enough&#8221;.\nThis may be true in the early stages of a love life, but over time the relationship can become more complicated, due to <strong>threats both external and internal to the couple<\/strong>.\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-68c77322 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"68c77322\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>But what are these <strong>enemies of the couple that you need to protect yourself from<\/strong> in order to enjoy a peaceful and happy relationship over the long term?<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7c5826b2 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"7c5826b2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>The list of potential dangers to a love story is long and by no means exhaustive, but in this article we&#8217;ve listed 10 of the most common enemies of the couple, and of course how to guard against them.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7904167 elementor-widget-mobile__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"7904167\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>\ud83d\udca1 To delve even deeper into the subject, check out our full article, featuring our <strong><br \/>\n  <a class=\"lien_html\" href=\"https:\/\/www.app.unio-preparation.com\/en\/couple-life\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">best practical tips for an even more fulfilling married life<\/a><br \/>\n<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9f0c82a elementor-toc--minimized-on-tablet elementor-widget elementor-widget-table-of-contents\" data-id=\"9f0c82a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;headings_by_tags&quot;:[&quot;h2&quot;],&quot;exclude_headings_by_selector&quot;:[],&quot;marker_view&quot;:&quot;bullets&quot;,&quot;icon&quot;:{&quot;value&quot;:&quot;fas fa-chevron-circle-right&quot;,&quot;library&quot;:&quot;fa-solid&quot;},&quot;no_headings_message&quot;:&quot;No headings were found on this 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class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">1 - Lack of attention or indifference\n<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5bf5b117 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"5bf5b117\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">How lack of attention is an enemy of the couple<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-58011d1a elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"58011d1a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tThe &#8220;opposite&#8221; of love in a couple&#8217;s relationship is not anger or hatred&#8230; but rather indifference: the <strong>absence of affection, attention or interest<\/strong> in what the other is going through or feeling.\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-25847556 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"25847556\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>It can take many forms in a couple&#8217;s relationship: one or the other no longer takes the initiative, no longer shares intimacy, no longer really listens, no longer confides in others, no longer notices physical or psychological changes in their partner&#8230;<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1c548405 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"1c548405\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">How to avoid it?<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-afc4e81 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"afc4e81\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul style=\"margin-bottom: 0px; list-style-type: none;\">Here are a few ways to avoid this enemy of the couple:\n \t<li style=\"margin-left: 0px;\">\u27a1\ufe0f <strong>Notice with gratitude everything everyone does for the relationship<\/strong>, and so take nothing for granted. If this isn&#8217;t your habit, it should be a real conscious effort at first to change your filter on your partner.<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"margin-left: 0px;\">\u27a1\ufe0f Communicate this gratitude to others.<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"margin-left: 0px;\">\u27a1\ufe0f Make the decision to <strong>pay more attention to what the other person is feeling, experiencing, talking about<\/strong>&#8230; and show it through small gestures.<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px;\">\u27a1\ufe0f If indifference is already present, discuss its <strong>possible causes: weariness, fatigue, desire for solitude<\/strong>&#8230;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7c377d48 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"7c377d48\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">2 - Grudge or resentment\n<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-dba57fb elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"dba57fb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">How resentment is a danger to the couple\n<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-30f40502 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"30f40502\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tIt&#8217;s a question of having &#8220;badly digested&#8221; something and holding on to it in a <strong>form of resentment, animosity or res<\/strong> entment towards the other person.<br>\nThe causes can be many: unaccepted behavior, a feeling of not having been listened to, an unmet need&#8230; and it creates very unpleasant emotions.\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-26c559e4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"26c559e4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tThis enemy is common in couples where one or the other is uncomfortable with conflict and prefers to sweep <strong>things under the carpet<\/strong>, hoping they&#8217;ll magically disappear. <u>Spoiler:<\/u> <strong>it doesn&#8217;t work<\/strong>.<br>\nThe number of arguments does not correlate with the strength of the couple. Building a couple involves learning to &#8220;argue well&#8221;, to say things, to avoid accumulating tension and resentment.<br>\nA repressed emotion doesn&#8217;t disappear, but grows and sooner or later emerges in a form that is not always appropriate for the relationship.\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-443e182 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"443e182\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">How do you get rid of them?\n<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a1cacc0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"a1cacc0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul style=\"margin-bottom: 0px; list-style-type: none;\">Here are some ways to deal with this resentment:\n \t<li style=\"margin-left: 0px;\">\u27a1\ufe0f Have an <strong>open discussion on the subject<\/strong> rather than &#8220;business as usual&#8221;.\n<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"margin-left: 0px;\">\u27a1\ufe0f Understand what happened when the &#8220;damage&#8221; was done.\n<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"margin-left: 0px;\">\u27a1\ufe0f For the person who caused the harm, <strong>apologize<\/strong> in appropriate language.\n<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px;\">\u27a1\ufe0f For the person who has &#8220;suffered&#8221; the wrong, <strong>decide if he or she wishes to forgive<\/strong>.\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6a229a0a elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6a229a0a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>In the <strong><br \/>\n  <a class=\"lien_html\" href=\"https:\/\/www.app.unio-preparation.com\/en\/premarital-counseling-course\/#sessions-details\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">session 5 of the Unio<\/a><br \/>\n<\/strong>course, we take you by the hand to learn how to argue properly, how to repair the bond after an argument, and how to avoid generating resentment.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-163deb49 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"163deb49\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">3 - Living side by side, not together\n<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9191d64 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"9191d64\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Why is it an enemy of the couple?<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4bc152f4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4bc152f4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>It can feel like we spend a lot of time together, and <strong>yet share nothing<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6c370ade elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6c370ade\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tThis is the case when the &#8220;practical&#8221; aspect of life takes over: household chores, raising children&#8230;<br>\nNow we only talk about logistics\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-31f175a elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"31f175a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">How to protect yourself?\n<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-60053fd elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"60053fd\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul style=\"margin-bottom: 0px; list-style-type: none;\">\n \t<li style=\"margin-left: 0px;\">\u27a1\ufe0f <strong>Plan quality time together:<\/strong> from the simplest (a few minutes&#8217; stroll) to the most important (a romantic weekend away), depending on the situation. The important thing is to have your attention 100% focused on each other, so exclude all distractions (telephone, children&#8230;) during these moments.\n<\/li>\n \t\n \t<li style=\"margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px;\">\u27a1\ufe0f Turning everyday moments <strong>into real moments of exchange<\/strong> (for example, taking advantage of the time to hang out the washing to tell each other about your day).\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-693f9d23 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"693f9d23\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">4 - Poor communication\n<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-637f369 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"637f369\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">How poor communication is a pitfall for couples<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-67965a9d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"67965a9d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>It&#8217;s probably the most common piece of advice given to young lovers: &#8220;communication is THE key to a good relationship&#8221;.<br \/>OK, but what does it really mean? And more specifically, what is poor communication?<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-589841b3 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"589841b3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul style=\"margin-bottom: 0px;\">\n<u>This can be done in several ways:<\/u>\n \t<li>The <strong>dialogue was broken<\/strong> by an event that damaged the emotional connection.\n<\/li>\n \t<li>One or the other feels <strong>uncomfortable, or no longer comfortable, discussing all subjects<\/strong> (sexuality, money, in-laws&#8230;).\n<\/li>\n<li>One or the other doesn&#8217;t feel <strong>listened to<\/strong>, or no longer feels <strong>listened to<\/strong>.\n<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"margin-bottom: 0px;\">You prefer to &#8220;sweep complex issues under the carpet&#8221; rather than discuss them.\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0ea6893 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"0ea6893\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">How to protect yourself?<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6051e6aa elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6051e6aa\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>\ud83d\udc49 Our advice?<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-533d696 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"533d696\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Carry out an <strong><br \/>\n  <a class=\"lien_html\" href=\"https:\/\/www.app.unio-preparation.com\/en\/blog\/active-listening\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">active listening session (dedicated article)<\/a><br \/>\n<\/strong>. If you don&#8217;t know what it is and how to set it up, we&#8217;ll guide you step by step in the blog post dedicated to this tool for a satisfying relationship.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2a44dfa elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2a44dfa\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"emoji\" role=\"img\" draggable=\"false\" src=\"https:\/\/s.w.org\/images\/core\/emoji\/14.0.0\/svg\/1f449.svg\" alt=\"\ud83d\udc49\">  Objective:<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-664c141d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"664c141d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tLet everyone put into words the communication problems you&#8217;re having, and have a real space to dig into the emotions and feelings this creates in him or her. And of course to talk about the relationship in a broader sense.\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3402ba7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"3402ba7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" src=\"https:\/\/app.unio-preparation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/Article-du-2309-Relation-amoureuse-decouvrez-les-10-ennemis-du-couple-a-eviter-a-tout-prix.gif\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-288554\" alt=\"\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-71b80113 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"71b80113\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">5 - Lack of a shared vision\n<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4c65d34 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"4c65d34\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">How is it an enemy of the couple?<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-86efe02 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"86efe02\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul style=\"margin-bottom: 0px;\">The shared vision of a couple is essential for building a lasting relationship and brings many things together:\n<strong>shared<a class=\"lien_html\" href=\"https:\/\/www.app.unio-preparation.com\/en\/blog\/values-in-a-relationship\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">values<\/a>, long-term projects.<\/strong>.. and even more philosophical subjects such as :\n \t<li>The <strong>vision of life<\/strong> you share<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"margin-bottom: 0px;\">The role you wish to play as a couple around you: in your close circle, but also more widely in society.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-728f8d5d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"728f8d5d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>It is <strong>a compass, a strong cement<\/strong> for being a harmonious couple. It gives meaning to the life you share.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c52472b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c52472b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"emoji\" role=\"img\" draggable=\"false\" src=\"https:\/\/s.w.org\/images\/core\/emoji\/14.0.0\/svg\/1f449.svg\" alt=\"\ud83d\udc49\">  The problem:  <\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-850703d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"850703d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>When a couple doesn&#8217;t have one, or doesn&#8217;t have one any more, it&#8217;s all about day-to-day issues like logistics, running the household, problems at work&#8230; which can put the couple in difficulty.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-95d1c96 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"95d1c96\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">How to protect yourself?<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-513812ce elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"513812ce\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tBy having a nice two-way discussion on the subject.\nIf this sounds too abstract, a marriage preparation course will help you to ask yourself these kinds of questions as a couple, through structured, guided sessions.\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4d1ac19 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4d1ac19\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>This will give a real boost to your relationship so that you can live happily together!<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-118c68d9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"118c68d9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">6 - Negative talk about the relationship\n<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1de9d32 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"1de9d32\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">How is this speech a problem for the relationship?\n<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-112e4517 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"112e4517\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tNumerous studies have shown that the <strong>happiness of lovers and the longevity of couples are closely correlated to the way (positive or negative) they tell<\/strong> each other stories.<br>\nSo ask yourself: when you talk about your relationship with friends or family, are you complaining about your partner? Or, on the contrary, to recount beautiful memories we&#8217;ve shared together?\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-702b5c94 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"702b5c94\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>You can be generally well in your relationship and still have a <strong>rather negative<\/strong> attitude towards it (this bias may be due to your upbringing, for example). Be careful: in the long term, believing that the grass is always greener elsewhere is a real danger to your relationship!<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-03e39ca elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"03e39ca\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">How to protect yourself?<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3614ca8 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3614ca8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul style=\"margin-bottom: 0px; list-style-type: none;\">Here are a few tips to help you avoid this pitfall:\n \t<li style=\"margin-left: 0px;\">\u27a1\ufe0f Realize that what you see and fantasize as positive in other couples is only a <strong>small and biased view of reality<\/strong>: you don&#8217;t know everything they&#8217;re going through or have gone through.\n<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"margin-left: 0px;\">\u27a1\ufe0f Make your own the mantra <strong>&#8220;the grass is not greener elsewhere, it&#8217;s greener where it&#8217;s watered&#8221;<\/strong> (and share it with your loved one).\n<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px;\">\u27a1\ufe0f <strong>Make a conscious note of all the positive things in your life together<\/strong>. If this doesn&#8217;t come naturally, you can do it academically by creating a routine: buy a nice little notebook, and every morning or evening write down something positive about your partner or your relationship.\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-652845a elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"652845a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">7 - Routine<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-729420a elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"729420a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">How is it an enemy of the couple?\n<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1002c9e elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1002c9e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tRoutine is <strong>not in itself an enemy of a couple<\/strong>: it can even be something positive to cherish in a relationship that lasts. These little daily habits, repeated a thousand times, belong to you alone and contribute to your history, your attachment.<br>\n<strong>\n  <a class=\"lien_html\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=8dcgk4W1MSM\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Episode 7 of &#8220;l&#8217;espace du couple&#8221; (The couple&#8217;s space)<\/a>\n<\/strong> is excellent on this subject.\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d912170 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"d912170\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Where <strong>it&#8217;s a problem: when she takes up all the space<\/strong>, and that&#8217;s all there is to your relationship: no more fun, no more unexpected&#8230; In some cases, it can destroy desire, seduction and complicity&#8230;<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b9069b2 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"b9069b2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">How to protect yourself?<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-03bc08a elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"03bc08a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul style=\"margin-bottom: 0px; list-style-type: none;\">Taking the bull by the horns! Specifically:\n \t<li style=\"margin-left: 0px;\">\u27a1\ufe0f Ask yourself: <strong>at the start of our relationship, what was exciting?<\/strong> What did we like to do together that was out of the ordinary?<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"margin-left: 0px;\">\u27a1\ufe0f Ask yourself: when was <strong>the last time we did something crazy as a couple?<\/strong> What has stopped us from doing it again? How can we remove this obstacle?<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px;\">\u27a1\ufe0f Roll up your sleeves and plan your next activity together. In need of inspiration? You&#8217;ll probably find them in <strong>\n  <a class=\"lien_html\" href=\"https:\/\/www.unio-preparation.com\/60-activites-a-faire-en-couple\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">our 60 date ideas guide<\/a>\n<\/strong> <i>(bonus: they&#8217;re sorted by mood and month of the year + we&#8217;ve got a printable planner to get you started right away).<\/i><\/li>\n<\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-21eae5c elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"21eae5c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">8 - Having unrealistic expectations<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1c4d86e elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"1c4d86e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Why these expectations are problematic\n\n<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6f77261 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6f77261\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tWe all have needs and <strong>expectations of each other and of the couple<\/strong>: attention, trust, understanding, being accepted as you are, respect, appreciation, security, affection, time spent together, compassion, mutual aid, tenderness&#8230;<br>\nThey&#8217;re influenced by your history, your personality, but also by your definition of a couple, itself formed by social constructs, films&#8230;\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8135bc3 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"8135bc3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul style=\"margin-bottom: 0px;\">The problem? <strong>These standards are often impractical<\/strong> and therefore destructive:  \n \t<li>&#8220;A happy couple has a constant, hyper-strong desire&#8221;.<\/li>\n \t<li>&#8220;A good couple doesn&#8217;t argue&#8221;.<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"margin-bottom: 0px;\">&#8220;With the right person, everything becomes simple&#8221;.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\nThese completely unrealistic injunctions have the effect of <strong>making lovers feel guilty<\/strong>, and even of sometimes wrongly telling them that their relationship isn&#8217;t good enough.\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0751760 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"0751760\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">How to protect yourself?<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9fb74db elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"9fb74db\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Realize that what happens in the movies has nothing to do with reality: being a couple in real life is full of shades of gray!<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e9b9165 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e9b9165\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tThe <strong>right person isn&#8217;t the one with whom everything will always be smooth<\/strong> and linear&#8230;<br>\nThe right person is the one you <strong>choose to<\/strong> walk with, through the good times and the not-so-good, committed to keeping your hand steady through life&#8217;s turbulence.\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7dc9a8d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"7dc9a8d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tDetermine together what <strong>your<\/strong> expectations and goals are, and not those hammered into you by films and magazines.\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ecc833f elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"ecc833f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" src=\"https:\/\/app.unio-preparation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/Article-du-2309-Relation-amoureuse-decouvrez-les-10-ennemis-du-couple-a-eviter-a-tout-prix-jpg.webp\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-288555\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/app.unio-preparation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/Article-du-2309-Relation-amoureuse-decouvrez-les-10-ennemis-du-couple-a-eviter-a-tout-prix-jpg.webp 1024w, https:\/\/app.unio-preparation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/Article-du-2309-Relation-amoureuse-decouvrez-les-10-ennemis-du-couple-a-eviter-a-tout-prix-300x200.webp 300w, https:\/\/app.unio-preparation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/Article-du-2309-Relation-amoureuse-decouvrez-les-10-ennemis-du-couple-a-eviter-a-tout-prix-768x512.webp 768w, https:\/\/app.unio-preparation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/Article-du-2309-Relation-amoureuse-decouvrez-les-10-ennemis-du-couple-a-eviter-a-tout-prix-50x33.webp 50w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f1d3245 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"f1d3245\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">9 - Too much merging<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b9d2824 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"b9d2824\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">How is it an enemy of the couple?<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-013b9e7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"013b9e7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>In the collective imagination, the ideal couple is still largely a fusional couple: happy couples do everything together, make decisions systematically together&#8230;<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7aa7849 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"7aa7849\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>In real life, <strong>too much fusion can create the risk of suffocation<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9938c34 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"9938c34\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>It&#8217;s up to you to find your own balance between what therapists Carolle and Serge Vidal-Graf call <i>&#8220;inspiration-fusion&#8221;<\/i> and <i>&#8220;expiration-separation&#8221;<\/i> (in their book <u>Couple r\u00eave couple r\u00e9el: de l&#8217;\u00e9tat amoureux \u00e0 l&#8217;amour<\/u>). Just as you need two breathing cycles to live, a couple needs a succession of moments of fusion and separation.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-af917a7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"af917a7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">How to protect yourself?<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f47cd0b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"f47cd0b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul style=\"margin-bottom: 0px; list-style-type: none;\">Here are several steps to take if you feel that this enemy is stalking you:\n \t<li style=\"margin-left: 0px;\">\u27a1\ufe0f Take a very objective look at the subject together: what is the <strong>ratio of time spent together or apart<\/strong>? Are there enough moments in your lives dedicated to experiencing things separately, with other people or alone?\n<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px;\">\u27a1\ufe0f If this balance doesn&#8217;t suit you: how can you concretely create these moments?\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f2cb8dc elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"f2cb8dc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul style=\"margin-bottom: 0px;\"><u>Let&#8217;s take an example:<\/u> you were a fan of hiking in the mountains when you met your boyfriend. Since then, you&#8217;ve put this passion aside, because it&#8217;s really not his thing. it&#8217;s time to breathe new life into the flame within you. In concrete terms :\n \t<li>How to take the time? Are there any organizational issues involved (e.g. childcare)?\n<\/li>\n \t<li>Is there anyone in my circle other than my partner with whom I can share this?\n<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"margin-bottom: 0px;\">&#8230;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-20eb1f4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"20eb1f4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tWe promise you: not only will you grow, but so will your relationship! You&#8217;ll have <strong>things to share on your return, and you&#8217;ll have rekindled your partner&#8217;s curiosity<\/strong>&#8230;<br>\nAfter all, when he chose you, it was also because you were passionate, wasn&#8217;t it?\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-bfb0bad elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"bfb0bad\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">10 - Hyperconnection<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b7568c4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"b7568c4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">How is it an enemy of the couple?<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5d1fcbe elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"5d1fcbe\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>We don&#8217;t need to spell it out for you: <strong>the telephone in bed, at the dinner table, professional e-mails at the weekend<\/strong>&#8230; are a real poison for married life.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-74182db elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"74182db\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n<ul style=\"margin-bottom: 0px;\"><u>Why?<\/u> \n \t<li>Because you&#8217;re wasting a lot of time scrolling around that you could be spending in love.\n<\/li>\n \t<li>Because hyperconnection often prevents you from giving your full attention and listening.\n<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"margin-bottom: 0px;\">Because screens unfortunately often replace other forms of intimacy in the bedroom\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9370b64 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"9370b64\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">How to protect yourself?<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e0950ba elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e0950ba\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tThere&#8217;s no secret: you have to <strong>set the rules<\/strong>.\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1563032 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1563032\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul style=\"margin-bottom: 0px; list-style-type: none;\">For example:\n \t<li style=\"margin-left: 0px;\">\u27a1\ufe0f No screens in the bedroom\n<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px;\">\u27a1\ufe0f No phones at the table\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-091807f elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"091807f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tAt first they may not be easy to apply (habits die hard, and most of us have developed a real addiction to notifications of all kinds), but it&#8217;s worth it &#8211; hang in there!<br>\nBeing a happy couple requires a little effort!\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-914c299 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"914c299\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Conclusion<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3c884dc elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3c884dc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tBy now you know the <strong>10 habits and behaviors that we believe are most damaging to a couple<\/strong>, and can, in extreme cases, break up the relationship.<br>\nThis list is by no means exhaustive, and above all, it&#8217;s not intended to be alarming or guilt-inducing: no couple is perfect, and if you find yourself in some of these enemies of the couple, <strong>it&#8217;s perfectly normal<\/strong>.\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9fef27f elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"9fef27f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tOn the other hand, building a strong relationship, even with a lot of love, is hard work.\nSo we roll up our sleeves and get going.<br>\nHow?\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c438352 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c438352\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<u>We suggest the following exercise:<\/u>\n<ol style=\"margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left:0px;\">\n \t<li>Read this article together<\/li>\n \t<li>Identify the 2 relationship enemies that you believe pose the greatest threat to your relationship<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"margin-bottom: 0px;\">Discuss the solutions proposed for each one and decide which ones you&#8217;d like to implement!<\/li>\n<\/ol>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1280916 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1280916\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Don&#8217;t hesitate to tell us in the comments how it went!<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-13e54279 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" 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class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Blog<\/div>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-cc9de9b elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"cc9de9b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Categories :<\/div>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ad7bdd7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-html\" data-id=\"ad7bdd7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"html.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<ul class=\"sidebar_article\" style=\"margin-bottom:0px;\">\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/app.unio-preparation.com\/en\/blog\/category\/life-together\/\">\u2764\ufe0f Couple life<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/app.unio-preparation.com\/en\/blog\/category\/premarital-counseling\/\">\ud83d\udc8d Premarital counseling<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a1516a0 elementor-widget-divider--view-line elementor-widget elementor-widget-divider\" data-id=\"a1516a0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"divider.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-divider\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-divider-separator\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-30102fc elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"30102fc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">\u27a1\ufe0f Who we are<\/div>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ee2c12c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"ee2c12c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tWe are <strong><span style=\"color: #f19879;\">Lysiane<\/span><\/strong> and <strong><span style=\"color: #f19879;\">Romain <\/span><\/strong>newlyweds and co-founders of Unio premarital counseling.\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c0814d2 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c0814d2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tA few years ago, we were exactly where you are now. We decided to get married and set about preparing for our big day with great excitement.\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-548e898 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"548e898\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tIt was great, but something was clearly missing. We wanted to <strong><span style=\"color: #f19879;\">to give real meaning to our commitment <\/span><\/strong>and prepare ourselves properly.\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-114aa12 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"114aa12\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tThat&#8217;s how Unio was born: the <strong><span style=\"color: #f19879;\">100% secular &amp; online premarital counseling program<\/span><\/strong>.\n<strong><a class=\"lien_html\" href=\"https:\/\/www.app.unio-preparation.com\/en\/about\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Read more &gt;&gt;<\/a><\/strong>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4019a43 elementor-widget-divider--view-line elementor-widget elementor-widget-divider\" data-id=\"4019a43\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"divider.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-divider\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-divider-separator\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e777218 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"e777218\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">\u27a1\ufe0f Preparing for marriage with Unio :<\/div>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1f450ef elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1f450ef\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tFor <strong><span style=\"color: #f19879;\">lay the foundations for a solid marriage<\/span><\/strong> without spending hours on it, and without going to church.\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-cb2e9ed elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"cb2e9ed\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<strong>Our premarital counseling program:<\/strong>\n<ul style=\"margin-bottom: 0px;\">\n \t<li style=\"list-style-type: none; margin-left: 0px;\">\u2705 100% secular<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"list-style-type: none; margin-left: 0px;\">\u2705 100% online<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"list-style-type: none; margin-left: 0px;\">\u2705 100% fun<\/li>\n<\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9a06fd1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"9a06fd1\" 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data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ece2625 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"ece2625\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Blog<\/div>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-cc9de9b elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"cc9de9b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Categories :<\/div>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ad7bdd7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-html\" data-id=\"ad7bdd7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"html.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<ul class=\"sidebar_article\" style=\"margin-bottom:0px;\">\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/app.unio-preparation.com\/en\/blog\/category\/life-together\/\">\u2764\ufe0f Couple life<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/app.unio-preparation.com\/en\/blog\/category\/premarital-counseling\/\">\ud83d\udc8d Premarital counseling<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a1516a0 elementor-widget-divider--view-line elementor-widget elementor-widget-divider\" data-id=\"a1516a0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"divider.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-divider\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-divider-separator\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-30102fc elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"30102fc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">\u27a1\ufe0f Who we are<\/div>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ee2c12c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"ee2c12c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tWe are <strong><span style=\"color: #f19879;\">Lysiane<\/span><\/strong> and <strong><span style=\"color: #f19879;\">Romain <\/span><\/strong>newlyweds and co-founders of Unio premarital counseling.\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c0814d2 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c0814d2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tA few years ago, we were exactly where you are now. We decided to get married and set about preparing for our big day with great excitement.\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-548e898 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"548e898\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tIt was great, but something was clearly missing. We wanted to <strong><span style=\"color: #f19879;\">to give real meaning to our commitment <\/span><\/strong>and prepare ourselves properly.\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-114aa12 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"114aa12\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tThat&#8217;s how Unio was born: the <strong><span style=\"color: #f19879;\">100% secular &amp; online premarital counseling program<\/span><\/strong>.\n<strong><a class=\"lien_html\" href=\"https:\/\/www.app.unio-preparation.com\/en\/about\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Read more &gt;&gt;<\/a><\/strong>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4019a43 elementor-widget-divider--view-line elementor-widget elementor-widget-divider\" data-id=\"4019a43\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"divider.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-divider\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-divider-separator\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e777218 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"e777218\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">\u27a1\ufe0f Preparing for marriage with Unio :<\/div>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1f450ef elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1f450ef\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tFor <strong><span style=\"color: #f19879;\">lay the foundations for a solid marriage<\/span><\/strong> without spending hours on it, and without going to church.\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-cb2e9ed elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"cb2e9ed\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<strong>Our premarital counseling program:<\/strong>\n<ul style=\"margin-bottom: 0px;\">\n \t<li style=\"list-style-type: none; 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